As part of a campaign to generate awareness about the crisis of premature birth in our country, the March of Dimes designated November as Prematurity Awareness Month. Premature birth is the leading cause of newborn death worldwide. And the rate of premature birth has risen by 30 percent since 1981.
â€œWe need to fight for our little ones so they don’t have to.â€
Every year, 1 in 8 babies are born prematurely â€“ thatâ€™s more than 543,000 children. This year, that number includes my twin boys. Compared with one baby, twins (or other higher order multiples) in California were about six times as likely to be preterm in 2007. A traditional pregnancy lasts for 40 weeks; full term is considered at 37 weeks. My muppets arrived in the middle of their 27th week â€“ 12 weeks early.
I donâ€™t call them my million dollar miracle muppets just for fun. Care for preemies costs more than $26 billion a year â€“ 10 times greater than the average expense of a full-term newborn. The costs break down as follows:
- $16.9 billion (65 percent) for medical care
- $1.9 billion (7 percent) for maternal delivery
- $611 million (2 percent) for early intervention services
- $1.1. billion (4 percent) for special education services
- $5.7 billion (22 percent) for lost household and labor market productivity
(These estimates come from Preterm Birth: Causes, Consequences and Prevention, a 2006 report published by the Institute of Medicine and funded in part by the March of Dimes.)
Having a child draws out a wide range of emotions in any case. I remember lying in my hospital bed, watching nervous and excited moms rush into the Labor and Delivery unit. Inevitably, Iâ€™d hear the mom or dad gleefully shouting that they were about to meet their new family member. Iâ€™d always envisioned that same scenario for my family. Instead, I was wheeled into the OR sobbing, clutching a nurses hand as I chanted â€œchubby babies, chubby babies.â€
Born three months premature, my sons were a tiny two pounds. But from the very beginning they were perfect in all the littlest ways. They each had a distinct personality and a desire to make their preferences known to the world. I am a mother, a mommy to two precious twin boys. My husband and I are parents. But they were not yet really ours. You meet your children and you would do anything for them â€“ then you are faced with the guilt of not having provided enough to keep them out of harmâ€™s way.
I learned so much during the 10 weeks my boys were residents of the NICU. They had the most amazing nurses, who patiently explained everything to my husband and me and cared for the muppets as though they were their own children in the hours we couldnâ€™t be with them in the hospital. Those nurses became family.
My muppets are doing great. Theyâ€™re great big boys (at five months old) and spend their days smiling and giggling. With each passing day, the NICU becomes more of a distant memory. But for all the families currently going through that experience, I hope someday the NICU nurses are all out of work because they are no longer needed.
November is Prematurity Awareness Month. Chances are somebody you know has experienced the roller coaster of emotions a baby born too soon brings. â€“ itâ€™s far more common than we like to think.